Be honest. Deep in your heart you know there's a wonderful man out there for you or you wouldn't be reading this. So, if he's out there somewhere, isn't it worth making the effort to attract him? Of course, actually finding Mr. Right is rarely easy, but there are a few ways you can speed things up.
Who is Your Dream Man Really?
While it's easy to admit that looks aren't everything, it's harder to let go of demands for seemingly important things like income, education level, and possessions (house, car, and so on). When it comes right down to it, though, even those things take a back seat to a man's character.
One man might be wealthy, but work long hours so you never get to see him. Another might well educated, but not very trust-worthy. Still another might be a blue-collar worker of modest means, rock-solid integrity, and a heart of gold. Who would you rather date?
Take the time to think about what's truly important to you in a long-term partner. One easy way to get your priorities straight is to grab a piece of paper and brainstorm all the things you want (looks, money, personality traits) and then narrow the list down to only five items.
Be Authentic
Think about it this way: if the "man of your dreams" doesn't like the real you, is he really the man of your dreams? Being authentic doesn't mean you need to fill him in on all your flaws on the first date, but don't go out of your way to act like someone you're not, either.
If you're used to following so-called rules of dating and attraction, it can be a little hard to let go of the "date facade," but being the real you will get you much better results. You know how it seems like the guys who are attracted to you are the ones you hardly notice? Why is that? It's because you don't try to impress them. They see the real you.
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